Mythos & Marginalia

2015 – 2025: a decade of days


j.g.lewis

  • December 6, 1989

    Thirty years ago, 14 women were killed because they were women.

    Read that again, in case you didn’t feel the impact:

    35 years ago, 14 women were killed because they were women.

    In Canada: in Montreal: thirty years ago, on this day.

    December 6, 1989.

    École Polytechnique. The Montreal Massacre.

    It was more than a mass shooting.

    I remember.

    The world changed that day.

    It has not changed enough.

    I will not take up space today to spit out my thoughts on gun control or public safety.

    I will not criticize today, here, those who continue to exhibit such blatant disregard for my fellow human beings, or the hypocrisy and/or misogyny of those people, or politicians, or corporations who try to hide behind flimsy excuses and transparent policies of diversity and inclusion. Or those who do not do enough to enforce, enhance, and encourage respect in the workplace, our communities, or countries.

    Today is not my day for that. 

    In Canada, today is National Day of Remembrance and Action on Violence Against Women. 

    It is a day for remembering the event, yes, but more so remembering the vital lives of the women who were hunted down and killed by a single man.

    Today  — as I do each year on the anniversary of this senseless tragedy — I will repeat the names of the 14 women whose lives were snuffed out by hatred, gender discrimination and attitudes which have prevailed in the years since.

    Our daughters, sisters, mothers and lovers face these injustices each day, in a country that prides itself on a satisfying and sufficient way of life.

    Violence against women is still here, it is systematic, and it is wrong. We all know it.

    The lives of the women killed, not their deaths, must remain an example. I dislike the popular term ‘Legacy of pain’, but I still feel it.

    These names must never be forgotten:

    Geneviève Bergeron
    Hélène Colgan
    Nathalie Croteau
    Barbara Daigneault
    Anne-Marie Edward
    Maud Haviernick
    Maryse Laganière 
    Maryse Leclair 
    Anne-Marie Lemay
    Sonia Pelletier 
    Michèle Richard
    Annie St-Arneault
    Annie Turcotte
    Barbara Klucznik-Widajewicz

     

    My heart goes out to the families, friends, partners, and loved ones who grieve for these significant women.

    I grieve with you.

    12/06/2024                                                                                                                                j.g.l.

     

  • the path you have chosen

    Time has a trajectory; 

    I don’t believe it ever forgets, 

    only that you get lost in the 

    dubious twists and turns that 

    have been navigated.

    Silence often means that there

    are too many words, and one 

    cannot figure out exactly what 

    to say to a person who once 

    meant everything.

    The soul still believes and often 

    wishes things could be different.

    Yet, you are more confident in

    the path you have chosen and

    where you are now.

     

    12/05/2024                                                                                                              j.g.l.

  • necessary infrastructure

    Now in the third week, the labour unrest at Canada Post continues to affect this country financially and ideologically.

       The Canadian Union of Postal Workers (CUPW) and Crown corporation are, apparently, so far apart in negotiations that government-appointed meditator called off the mediation process.

       The strike is costing business — small business in particular — millions of dollars at a time this country cannot afford it. Yes, the big for-profit courier companies seem to be handling the sharp untick in traffic at the busiest time of year for package delivery, but Christmas day draws ever closer. It is more than an inconvenience as we all are readying packages for faraway family and friends. Many of us are now forced into making gift choices though online services like Amazon and the like.

       For me it is personal. I do, and still, enjoy sending Christmas cards. While I have regular letters to reply to — a daughter in Winnipeg, pen pal in the U.K., cousin in Connecticut, and a couple of friends in other U.S. states and Canadian provinces — I’ve got another list of people that I, perhaps, only write to once a year. A Christmas card is always fitting.

       I have news to share of next year’s travel plans, a new house and address, and all sorts of personal updates.

       I’ve not been writing as much lately. Mentally it has been that kind of a year, so the cards to me, this year, seem a little more important. Handwriting a letter provides a necessary break for my online mind. I’ve got things to say and nothing says it better than a handwritten letter.

       While the digital age has allowed instant communication, it is not the same. Email, fundamentally, will not replace the postal service that has become a necessary component of our history.

       The postal union (with its 55,000 members) is seeking higher wages, better medical benefits and changes to the postal service’s use of temporary workers. Canada Post has said the CUPW’s bargaining table demands are challenging its “comprehensive framework for reaching negotiated agreements.”

       At the heart of the labour strife is the unreal expectation that the crown corporation should make a profit. What seems to have been ignored is the fact that a reliable mail service is necessary infrastructure, like a sewer system or multi-lane highway. 

       You cannot derive a profit from the millions of kilometers of urban streets and rural highways, or national parks, but we all count on them to be there. Just as we count on the mail service.

       Realistically, it never should have come to this. Agreed, negotiations with a strong labour union have been difficult historically, but Jean-Yves Duclos, Minister of Public Services and Procurement, is the minister responsible for Canada Post. 

       Duclos, as the representative responsible, has been irresponsible by allowing this to drag on so long. Labour minister Steven MacKinnon shares the blame, as does Prime Minster Justin Trudeau, boss to both elected officials. Now, I recognize the PM has a lot of other things on his plate (including his plans to get re-elected next time around) but he should be ensuring the mail gets through. 

       Word is the feds are not even considering binding arbitration. MacKinnon said deals must be achieved through compromise, but added it was necessary for the Crown corporation because it was at an “obvious pivot point” in its history.

       Given that every labour contract has a fixed end date, the federal government and Crown corporation should have been working on these pivots ages ago and not waiting until the contract had expired. It was unfortunate, and irresponsible, not to do so. 

       Look at where we are and how much it is costing us as individually and as a country.

     

    © 2024 j.g. lewis

  • last night

    I have heard it before;

    shouting on the street.

     

    Total darkness. 

     

               It could be

               3:46 a.m.

     

         in any other city.

     

    The violence of silence

                     is not unique

     

       to downtown Toronto.

     

    When I hear bottles smash

               in the night

     

       I try not to think of

                 human bones. 

     

       Fragility, and

     

         all of the pressure 

         we are under.

     

         For what?

    To live?    I don’t know.

     

         To try?

     

    We are all trying

                     to live.

     

       To breathe.    To sleep

     

    3:54 a.m.

     

     

    12/03/2024                                                                                                                         j.g.l.

  • Mondays are just young Fridays

    What gets left behind

    with our unmade minds

    forever rushing?

     

    What do we leave behind

    if we did not take 

    the time to notice?

     

    What is no longer mine

    because neither you nor I 

    could take our time?

     

    12/02/2024                                                                                                                           j.g.l.