Mythos & Marginalia

2015 – 2025: a decade of days


open space

  • reminders

    My therapist reminded me, yesterday, of a phrase she had used before and one I had heard a long time ago. 
       They were wonderful words that I had forgotten, somehow, caught up in all I have been doing, or in things I have been trying to understand or attempting to accomplish. 
       It is a simple phrase I need to remember more often: We are human beings, not human doings. 
       Our goal, above all else, should be to simply be without thinking, or overburdening ourselves with all we are trying to be . . . even all we are trying to understand. 
       Instead, we often get caught up in all we are doing, and most of us try to do so much or are involved in too much. 
       It becomes too much. 
       We are all human. 
       I was reminded later in the day of something I had written to myself a long while back. It is something I need to remind myself of more often: You are only human; so is everybody else. 

    10/17/2023                                                                                                   j.g.l.

  • personally

    How are you feeling? 
    How are you dealing with the pain,  
    or the shame, of all that affects us  
    globally, locally, or personally? 
    Can you sympathize? 
    Will you empathize with what you 
    are told and all that you know . . .  
    and all that you don’t? 
    Have you found the compassionate  
    voice within? Is it authentic? 

    10/15/2023                                                                                  j.g.l. 

  • I Believe

    Deadlines and commitments, especially those self-imposed, are important. They set the pace and prioritize progress every day, any day, but especially today. 
       What must be done, or completed, will determine how you spend the time as you work towards your goal. 
       We all need goals.
       To accomplish those aspirations, target dates are required. 
       We all need deadlines to give our intentions are purpose. 
       Today is that day, for me. 
       For weeks now (and longer) I’ve been trying to take a project to the next level, and I believe I am there. 
       Beliefs are as important as deadlines; maybe more so. 
       Today is the day, I believe, and to delay (as I have before) any further will only hold me back. 
       Deadlines are important, especially for me, especially today. 

    10/12/2023                                                                                       j.g.l.

  • not always the same

    Step by step throughout the day,
    later today than most. Same direction
    or another way to a familiar place.
    Not always predictable, where you go
    is not always where you will stay.
    How do you know where you will
    end up when it is not always the same?
    At least, not today.

    10/06/2023                                                                                  j.g.l.

  • while we wait

    We all spend our time on this planet going about our daily business, dealing with both happiness and sorrow as it comes at us, reacting to whatever comes our way in a manner that is within our grasp. 
       We also spend a great deal of time waiting.
       We wait for our hard work to pay off, waiting for something to happen, waiting for our morning coffee, another chance or, perhaps, even waiting for a miracle. 
       But while we wait, we must continue, one step at a time, making this journey as enjoyable as we can. 
       We cannot simply wait for a miracle or wait for joy and happiness.  
       We must make it happen, for then it truly is a miracle. 

    10/05/2023                                                                                   j.g.l.